The moment you realise what a complete utter door mat you are ….. Where you see the reasons people have been laughing being your back …… That your nothing but a foolish girl to many ….


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  1. First of all why do u want to consider urself as a doormat. ?? Never do that. And its not worth worrying what people talk behind you. Our business is to do what we love to do and what we think is right . be proud of who you are

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  2. Do not consider yourself a doormat. What causes this emotion is other people finding your vulnerabilities and using them for their benefits. These people you need to wipe your feet on and slam the door in their face. At least you have the nerve to open yourself up to others.

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  3. Those who matter don’t mind and those who mind don’t matter. Who cares what people think? And you should never think of yourself as a doormat. If you do think that, it’s up to you to change it if you don’t like it, but you can do it. I did.

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  4. I have been this. It took me a long time to realize I was a convenient friend to many, someone everyone could count on to stick around and always help move, help out, be a shoulder and then when things got better, of they’d trot leaving me behind.

    Or worse, they put me down in little ways I didn’t notice and suddenly I was sitting in a coffee shop as I listen to why I shouldn’t love the man I wanted to Mary and how silly I’ve always been, and shouldn’t I be a good girl and just….

    So then I cut them out. Slowly at first. It was so hard. I dreamt of them upset with me asking me why eye. The guilt was real.

    But after months of not contacting them and blocking them on social media not a one tried to call me on the phone. My number hadn’t changed, I hadn’t moved. I realized truly I had done the right thing . If they cared, they would make the effort.

    It’s been 4 years and I am so very awesome without them.

    Maybe you’d be awesome without your negative people too?

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