For a women who never wanted nor believes in marriage I’m so happy I did. Hey we’re not perfect nor would I want that. We’ll have our challenges, already faced some already. But I’ve learnt marriage has some how given me more confidence to speak up, not for confrontation but so we have a long happy marriage. I’m feeling a lot more secure. Given my past which was plagued with insecurity and fear its a huge thing. What’s your biggest tip for marriage? What’s that one piece of advice you’d offer to a newly wed? Before we got married I decided I had to things I wanted to do myself. Never got to bed without a kiss and I love you. And to try to keep doing little things so my husband feels appreciated and loved. Weather a simple coffee or a huge gesture.